Welcome to the love hub
The Love Hub is your go-to resource for all things ceremony planning. It’s packed with inspiration and answers to any questions you might have. But don’t worry—these are just guides and ideas; there’s no pressure to follow them. This is simply a space to spark your creativity and excitement as you embark on this journey with me! I’ll be there every step of the way, making sure you absolutely love your ceremony and fall head over heels for the final result.
your story
Ceremony script
The ceremony script guide has been created to give you a taste of what your script could look like. Once I’ve captured your love story and the vibe you want, I’ll tailor the ceremony script that’s truly unique to you.
set the scene
Ceremony music
If live music isn’t what you’re looking for, this music guide is here to help you choose the perfect soundtrack for your ceremony.
power of 3
Vow writing guide
Vows aren’t something to leave until the last minute—they’re the heartfelt promises you make to your soulmate. To help get you inspired, I’ve created a guide just for you!
ideas to cull
the guest list?
Creating your guest list can be one of the trickiest parts of wedding planning, but it’s all about making sure your day feels intimate and meaningful. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, there are ways to trim the list without guilt. Here are some ideas to help ensure you’re inviting people who truly matter, rather than just out of obligation:
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If you haven’t had dinner or spent quality time with them in the last year, consider leaving them off.
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Limit plus-ones to partners who are married, engaged, or in long-term relationships. This helps reduce numbers while keeping it fair and consistent.
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Consider keeping the guest list to adults only. This can be a practical way to reduce numbers and save costs while creating a more relaxed vibe for the day.
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Organise your guest list into tiers: must-haves, would-like-to-haves, and extras. If you need to cut, start from the bottom tier and work your way up.
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Did you know it’s totally okay not to invite your long-lost uncle or that cousin you haven’t spoken to since you were ten? Your wedding is about celebrating your love with the people who are actively part of your life, not about fulfilling family obligations out of guilt.
happily ever before and after (HEBA)
The Happily Ever Before and After (HEBA) document is a mandatory, government-issued requirement for all couples planning to marry in Australia. As part of the legal process, it’s essential that each party receives a copy. Enjoy the bedtime read, and don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any questions!
do you hate public speaking?
You're not alone—In fact, the vast majority of people rank fear of public speaking as number one—75% according to the National Institutes of Mental Health.
If the thought of reading your vows aloud makes your palms sweat, don’t stress! We can discuss alternatives in your planning meeting to ensure you feel your absolute best on your day!
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Unfortunately, for your ceremony to be legally binding, we do need to include the legal vows at the very least. But don’t worry—if this feels overwhelming, we can keep it low-key and have you say them at the signing table, with just me, your partner, and your witnesses present.
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While we do need to include your legal vows, you can still write personal vows and share them in a private moment if that feels more special to you.
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Have you considered writing your personal vows as a letter? Whether shared before or after the ceremony, it creates such a beautiful and intimate moment.
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Want your personal vows to be shared during the ceremony but not comfortable reading them in front of everyone? Record them ahead of time, and I can play them for you on the day!
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Still want your personal vows shared on the day but find the idea too stressful? Write them down, and I’ll happily read them on your behalf.
crowd pleasers
Looking to involve your guests but not sure where to start? Check out this guide with 10 fun and creative ways to include your crowd in your special day!
Who goes first?
The million-dollar question: Who goes first when reading the vows? This guide offers 5 fun and creative ways to decide!
the traditions
A traditional ceremony often includes readings or rituals that reflect who you are as a couple or a family. This guide offers ideas for readings and rituals to incorporate into your ceremony—or it might inspire you to create something uniquely your own!
fur babies are important too
If you have a fur baby you'd love to include in your ceremony, let’s chat about it during our planning meeting! I know how important it is to have your furry family members by your side, so if this is something you’d like to do, let’s make it happen!
changing your surname
Decided to change your name? This guide is here to help you navigate the process and make it as smooth and straightforward as possible!
Timeline tips
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Build in buffers between key moments, like travel to the venue, photos, or the ceremony, to account for unexpected delays.
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Check sunset times and schedule your couple portraits during golden hour for dreamy, soft lighting.
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Schedule 15-30 minutes after the ceremony for just the two of you to share a quiet moment, exchange feelings about the day so far, or simply enjoy each other’s company.
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Be realistic about how long things will take—consult with your vendors to get accurate estimates for hair, makeup, photos, and travel.
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Make sure you and your partner have time to eat (and hydrate!) throughout the day so you can enjoy every moment.